The Top Girl Lifestyle

Hello, Welcome back 😊 I hope you enjoy reading this as much as I enjoyed writing it. "It is we who nourish the Soul of the World, and the world we live in will be either better or worse, depending on whether we become better or worse. And that's where the power of love comes in. Because when we love, we always strive to become better than we are." - The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho.   I remember how crazy this book made me. It enlightened me in many areas, but one that really stuck – The power of love.   Has it ever occurred to you that human behavior- to a large extent, is affected by external factors, including but not limited to our environment and life experiences.   Thinking out loud here, using X and Y as case studies:   X comes from what we can call a perfect family, overflowing love from nuclear and extended family. X lives in an environment where everyone is supportive and loving. Everything peachy.   On the other hand, Y grows up in chaos, h...

  Hey.   You look so beautiful when you smile, please don't stop.   I have started this post so many times in my head but I kept on doubting my ability to articulate sentences on the screen. You see, I haven’t written in the longest – but, Beyoncé wasn’t built in a day, so you have to be patient with me.😅😅😅 This week, I jotted down so many things in my note – including random song lyrics, fleeting thoughts, affirmations, names (like, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart and Donatella Versace). *Insert laughing emoji*   One thing that really stood out was the power of new beginnings and determination.   I am a big advocate of starting over and over and over again until you find your feet. I believe in giving yourself as many chances as needed. Then I thought to myself, maybe I like the idea of starting over because I'm scared of moving to the next stage. Ouch   I am not perfect. I am soooo scared of failing that I would rather remain in my comfort zone than...